Obsurdities

As a separate post, I just want to complain about 2 things.
4 days ago, I asked bitchy nurse (most of the nurses are great) "what are the restrictions". She went on to tell me about how bed rest has no benefits and to change nothing. My husband and I talked about me trying to take it easy at work anyway, just to be careful. She then told me I'd come back on either day 3 OR 5 for transfer, which we'd figure out in the next 2 days.
Yesterday I was told to not lift over 10lbs, no bending/twisting/pushing and to decrease stress. Also that I come in on day 3 AND 5 so we can figure out our best option there. So was bitchy nurse just an idiot? They tell several people the sane thing every day so how was she wrong? It's just annoying b/c I asked to help me with work scheduling and such.

Second, I hate one of the docs. She did my day 3 u/s and lied to me. She did my day 11 and just seems aggravated when you ask for any info. And of course, she did my retrieval yesterday. The other 2 docs were both great with my questioning and they seemed empathetic and reassuring. I don't understand people staying in jobs when they are no longer empathetic. This woman is obviously smart, so I'm sure she could find another job where patients didn't want to talk to her or ask her questions. During the retrieval I just felt like she didn't care. Maybe it would have hurt the same with the other docs, I don't know. She didn't even warn me before she put in a speculum. All of a sudden she pushed that baby in and stews it open. Then checks something and takes it out again. I've had a lot of paps with several different docs over the years and have never been taken by surprise by the oh-so-comfortable speculum. The big kicker, when I was crying after the proceedure, she came back in to tell me "3" but seeing that I was crying said "was it something that I said?".
WTF? Was she cracking a joke? What a fucking bitch.
I'm now not going to focus on the negative... Although I hope transfer is with a different doc.